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About Helene and Zaf

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Retirement for us was never about stepping away from life - it was a chance to zoom in and rediscover what brings us joy. After choosing to retire part-time, my husband and I took on the challenge of downsizing and traveling, which led us to live in Greece for six spectacular months.


While waiting for our new home in Ventura County to be built, I began chronicling our experiences—everything from learning to let go of old things to adapting to new routines in a foreign country. Those personal stories, shared first as blogs, evolved into my book 'Retirement Explored™.

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I have always believed retirement is a blank canvas, and every story or photo is a chance to inspire someone to travel, to explore fun things to do, or to simply add meaning to the everyday by volunteering and helping others in need.


My work now centers on connecting with fellow retirees and those dreaming of this stage of life, through my book, speaking events, and by encouraging others to embrace this opportunity for adventure. I invite you to read along, find inspiration, and reimagine what your own retirement story can be.

Meet the Retire-Agers™

Zaf and I measure time from the day we met, when the road turned for both of us.

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I was born in Lamia, smack in the middle of Central Greece and was carried into NYC when I was 9 months old.  Did not know a word of English when I went to kindergarten, but the streets of Manhattan were my playground teaching me how to speak like a New Yawker!  Soon after, my parents placed me in private Greek school, where I became fluent in the Greek language and obtained a strong background in Greek history, geography and mythology.    Our first trip back to Greece, when I was young girl, gave me the opportunity to see the ancient ruins whereby I burst into tears at the realization that I belonged to this beautiful land.   First career was in the travel industry, allowing me to travel extensively and establish a life-long love of it.   Moved to Los Angeles and started my second career; I left the corporate world and started my own business as a Business Consultant.  It was the perfect place to meet Zaf.​

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Zaf was born in Thessaloniki, in Northern Greece and came to the USA when he was 10 years old.  He assimilated quickly by playing soccer with the local kids on the streets of West Orange, NJ.  His athletic ability was recognized with a full college scholarship.  Marrying young and raising three children, he worked several jobs a week to make end meets and to finish his education.  It paid off when he reached executive level in a major convenience store company overseeing over 300+ franchises.  Life changed 30 years later when he moved to Phoenix, AZ as a consultant, setting up a household of 1.  And then again, when he moved to Southern California several years later.

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Zaf and I met in 2005 on a Greek online dating site – I know, I know – we took a chance.  We both wanted to connect with someone who knew and understood our ethnic background.   Going back to where we came from, we found what we were looking for.  We took one look at each other, recognized each other and married each other.  The Greek Gods were smiling upon us.

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Almost immediately we discovered that we were both drawn to foreign countries.  Perhaps it was because we were raised in an immigrant family where the language, the food, the customs and traditions were so different than our American friends next door.  In any event, we began to travel, continue to travel and is the focal point of our retirement plans and hence, part of this blog.

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You will find, through the blogs posted, that while we both agree on when to retire and some aspects of retirement itself, like moving out of the current house and some travel plans, you will also find that we each harbor our own personal vision of what retirement means.

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Come along with us as we reveal the negotiations and compromises of what our retirement will look like…and then reveal what retirement is like when we are living it.

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We are on it!

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Helene

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Retire Well!

Originally Published October 28, 2019

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